There’s a belief I carried for way too long:
“People who talk about themselves and their successes are bragging… and not nice people.”
I don’t even remember exactly when I first picked it up.
Maybe it was the quiet tension in the room when someone celebrated themselves.
Maybe it was the way we were taught to “stay humble” in school or family settings.
Maybe it was the stories I witnessed, where confidence was mistaken for arrogance — especially in women.
So I learned to dim it.
To downplay the good things.
To shrink the parts of me that were proud of what I’d built, healed, or achieved.
Even when I worked hard.
Even when I overcame things no one saw.
Because I didn’t want to seem too much.
Didn’t want to make anyone uncomfortable.
Didn’t want to be “that person.”
But here’s the truth I’ve come home to:
Speaking your truth and sharing your success isn’t bragging.
It’s being seen.
It’s self-respect.
It’s leadership.
It’s showing others what’s possible when you do the work.
It’s saying, “I’m not here to pretend I’m small to make others feel better.”
It’s saying, “Here’s what’s changed for me, and here’s what can change for you, too.”
And you know what else?
Kind, generous, heart-led people deserve to be celebrated.
We need more of that.
We need more examples of people doing healing work and thriving — not just scraping by in silence.
So I’m letting myself speak.
Letting myself be proud.
Letting my voice take up the space it’s earned.
Not for approval.
Not to prove anything.
But because every time I do, a piece of that old story dies.
And a new one rises in its place:
✨ “It’s safe to be seen in my truth.
It’s safe to own what I’ve overcome.
It’s safe to shine without shame.”
And in doing that — I give others permission to do the same.
With love,
Annie 🧡
If something in you knows it’s time for a shift, trust that. I’m here—when you’re ready.
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